He dating other women besides me
I met this guy on a night out with friends and we’ve been texting pretty much all day every day for a month.
He often texts me first and we seem to really get along well and like him a lot.
Again, this on its own might not mean he's talking to other girls, but paired with other signs and/or shady behavior, and it could mean something.
A lot of guys are slightly distant, but here's what I mean by this: he always manages to mention that he doesn't want a commitment, or that he isn't ready for a serious relationship.
I'm talking about the guy who likes multiple photos/statuses/tweets/etc from the same girl on a regular basis.
Or the guy who likes ONLY the hottest photos of the girls in your school.
This means that he has to call the shots and make sure that everything is always done on his time.
So rather than worry and wonder about what he might be doing, let go of it and realize that you really don’t have any control over him or anyone else. You might say to me, “Well, Eric, that’s because she’s You’ll notice that the women who have effortless success in their dating life absorb themselves in enjoying their life and the world around them, not fixating on internal worries or trying to control the behavior of others.
They focus on having a great relationship with the people around them…
I have to imagine (and hope) you don’t spy on your best friends or family… You probably don’t even think about the relationship you have with them because you’re absorbed in just having a great relationship with them. Why should the future love-of-your-life be subjected to a version of you that’s paranoid, focused on “locking him down” and spying on his personal business when everyone else who you love and care about gets the best of you?
I know it sounds ridiculous when I put it like that because, well, it is!